abundance, femininity

i want the raw compliments; awkward and all

i can't recall when the idea of being seen as someone who makes you feel safe + understood transcended the idea of being seen as a 'desirable' person. to put it bluntly, i can't recall when i stopped in my haste, analysed myself for a second, and realised that the compliments i crave the hardest… Continue reading i want the raw compliments; awkward and all

abundance, femininity, imperative sh*t

your desires transcend your desirability

disclaimer: this opinion piece is written from my own, white feminine, heterosexual perspective. in no way do i intend to belittle or ignore the perspectives of others of different genders, identities and sexual orientations. i’m merely just unpacking my thoughts + own feelings/experiences around desirability vs personal desires.  art by Florence Given firstly, i can’t… Continue reading your desires transcend your desirability